houstonmacbro Posted April 30, 2007 Author Share Posted April 30, 2007 The people, by and large, on this group are great folks. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
MidtownCoog Posted May 1, 2007 Share Posted May 1, 2007 You do it all the time. You hold hands, hug, kiss in the line at the grocery store.Only freaks do that. Freaks and of course illegal aliens. Don't be a freak no matter which team you play on. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Pumapayam Posted May 1, 2007 Share Posted May 1, 2007 Only freaks do that. Freaks and of course illegal aliens. Don't be a freak no matter which team you play on.I love holding hands, it is sweet. I wish my man was more comfortable with it, but he is still a closet case. I don't want to do anything he is not ready for, and he is definitely not ready to show PDA with a guy in public. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
MidtownCoog Posted May 1, 2007 Share Posted May 1, 2007 Holding hands is one thing. Macking down in the checkout aisle at Seven Sea's Grocery like the two breeders I saw this weekend is quite another.Although I think they were wiggin. They bought batteries and a football. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
TJones Posted May 1, 2007 Share Posted May 1, 2007 Holding hands is one thing. Macking down in the checkout aisle at Seven Sea's Grocery like the two breeders I saw this weekend is quite another.Although I think they were wiggin. They bought batteries and a football.OOOOOHHHHHHHH, to be young, in love, and on Extasy !I don't know Coog, no Orange Juice or Chewing Gum at checkout, must have been low-grade stuff. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
gwilson Posted May 1, 2007 Share Posted May 1, 2007 Holding hands is one thing. Macking down in the checkout aisle at Seven Sea's Grocery like the two breeders I saw this weekend is quite another.Although I think they were wiggin. They bought batteries and a football.Just curious why the term "breeder" isn't frowned upon since it is often used in a malicious way. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
MidtownCoog Posted May 1, 2007 Share Posted May 1, 2007 Breeder is bad? I am a proud breeder! And a legal one. Not the illegal alien kind you see macking down at HEB. And Lord know the homos need us breeders. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
TJones Posted May 1, 2007 Share Posted May 1, 2007 Just curious why the term "breeder" isn't frowned upon since it is often used in a malicious way. Breeder is bad ? Eh, Who knew? Guess I'll quit asking the rug munchers if they want to breed. They might be offended that I said the "B-word" ? Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Pumapayam Posted May 1, 2007 Share Posted May 1, 2007 Just curious why the term "breeder" isn't frowned upon since it is often used in a malicious way. Breeder is just referencing that you like to boink women and make babies. It may be even a compliment since it references that you are at least getting some. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
gwilson Posted May 1, 2007 Share Posted May 1, 2007 Breeder is just referencing that you like to boink women and make babies.It may be even a compliment since it references that you are at least getting some. rofl! classic! Best answer to a ridiculous question, ever. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
musicman Posted May 1, 2007 Share Posted May 1, 2007 Breeder is just referencing that you like to boink women and make babies.i never understood why it is used since i know quite a few gays with children. I just pass its use off as juvenile. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
MidtownCoog Posted May 2, 2007 Share Posted May 2, 2007 Gays with children?So shall we start the real debate in another thread?I'd hate to hijack this gayfest. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
musicman Posted May 2, 2007 Share Posted May 2, 2007 Gays with children?So shall we start the real debate in another thread?what is there to debate? please start another thread if you feel obligated. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
houstonmacbro Posted May 2, 2007 Author Share Posted May 2, 2007 what is there to debate? please start another thread if you feel obligated.I was kinda wondering the same thing...? Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
nmainguy Posted May 2, 2007 Share Posted May 2, 2007 Gays with children?So shall we start the real debate in another thread?I'd hate to hijack this gayfest.Go for it. Might we suggest you title it: Macking Gays with Loving Homes...What's the Debate? Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
houstonmacbro Posted May 2, 2007 Author Share Posted May 2, 2007 Go for it. Might we suggest you title it: Macking Gays with Loving Homes...What's the Debate? I started the thread and would welcome the debate ... whatever it is ...? I forget. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
MidtownCoog Posted May 2, 2007 Share Posted May 2, 2007 I just wanted to understand how two gay men (or two gay women) can have children.Who does who in the what now?Are all of musicman's gay friends with kids ex-breeders? Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
houstonmacbro Posted May 2, 2007 Author Share Posted May 2, 2007 Adoption. Donors. Surrogates. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
plumber2 Posted May 3, 2007 Share Posted May 3, 2007 I never have figured out why it's such a big thing to "come out". Maybe just to your parents or siblings, but they probably already know. Other than that, it's nobody's business. I'm married with children but had a few relationships with guys early on. It's old news and nobody's business. Just live life like you feel like it, and make every day count. Don't worry about being in or out. The truth is, nobody really cares, and they prefer not to know, so don't put them on the spot. If they ask, be honest. Don't sweat it. By the time you're old and gray, this discussion will still be going on. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
ssullivan Posted May 3, 2007 Share Posted May 3, 2007 I first came out in 1999, when I was almost 25. I had known I was gay for a very long time Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Pumapayam Posted May 3, 2007 Share Posted May 3, 2007 I never have figured out why it's such a big thing to "come out". Maybe just to your parents or siblings, but they probably already know. Other than that, it's nobody's business. I'm married with children but had a few relationships with guys early on. It's old news and nobody's business. Just live life like you feel like it, and make every day count. Don't worry about being in or out. The truth is, nobody really cares, and they prefer not to know, so don't put them on the spot. If they ask, be honest. Don't sweat it. By the time you're old and gray, this discussion will still be going on.So you are considered bi then.I had known I was gay for a very long time Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
houstonmacbro Posted May 3, 2007 Author Share Posted May 3, 2007 So you are considered bi then.For a forum on architecture, and based on the activity of some of the most frequent members, we have a good amount of gay members on HAIF, I count 7!Uh oh ... we're not outing folks are we? Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Pumapayam Posted May 3, 2007 Share Posted May 3, 2007 Uh oh ... we're not outing folks are we?Nope, just those that responded in this thread, so it is you and I, plus nmainguy, Montrose1100, HtownWxBoy, ssullivan, travelguy73And newbies kingkirbythegreatoftexas, plumber2I know two more, but I won't post their names since they have not responded in this thread yet, so actually the count is more like 10. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
houstonmacbro Posted May 3, 2007 Author Share Posted May 3, 2007 I hear we're one in ten. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
plumber2 Posted May 4, 2007 Share Posted May 4, 2007 Oh Great! Do we get some kind of T-Shirt? Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
jm1fd Posted May 4, 2007 Share Posted May 4, 2007 I didn't come out until after HS. I was in denial pretty much the whole way through HS, but was starting to accept it my senior year, and the summer between HS and college. Once in college, I met a couple folks who were out, and it made me realize that there were other people out there like me, and it was just time to accept who I was. I told my very closest friends at first, then some coworkers. Most of the family still doesn't know officially yet, however. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
HtownWxBoy Posted May 4, 2007 Share Posted May 4, 2007 I didn't come out until after HS. I was in denial pretty much the whole way through HS, but was starting to accept it my senior year, and the summer between HS and college. Once in college, I met a couple folks who were out, and it made me realize that there were other people out there like me, and it was just time to accept who I was. I told my very closest friends at first, then some coworkers. Most of the family still doesn't know officially yet, however. I went through tons of different phases too... first when I was really young I thought my attraction to guys was just part of growing up... like all boys went through it... then in high school I realized I might be gay and told myself I would never act on it and I would marry a girl and everything... then for a short period of time in High School I actually convinced myself it would be ok to marry and girl and then just cheat on her behind her back w/ a guy if I needed to (thank god I never did that)... then finally early in college after realizing I couldn't live a lie anymore I came to terms w/ it and accepted myself... since then I couldn't be happier. Oh Great! Do we get some kind of T-Shirt? Yes! They can read "Homo HAIFers". he he Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Pumapayam Posted May 4, 2007 Share Posted May 4, 2007 Oh Great! Do we get some kind of T-Shirt? Depends, I'd make a great logo! Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
jm1fd Posted May 4, 2007 Share Posted May 4, 2007 Yes! They can read "Homo HAIFers". he he I was thinking something like GAIF.... Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
HtownWxBoy Posted May 5, 2007 Share Posted May 5, 2007 I was thinking something like GAIF.... GAIF sounds good... or HAIF Homos... he he. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
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